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Conscious Conception with Tantric Sex for couples~ Invitation to work 1:1

Updated: May 14



This is an invitation for couples who are already on their natural fertility journey, moving towards a conscious conception - ideally you already have your diet, lifestyle stresses in check- and you are ready to learn the energetics of preparing for conception from a tantric approach. That means you are ready to dive deep into the sacred experience of your full sexual expression and that of your partners as a means to create a deeper connection to your divine and also to create a family through the conception of your baby


This program is 6 weeks long and is a good fit for couples who are willing to show up weekly to a 1:1 call and dedicate time each day to about 1 hour worth of exercises (some alone and some together.


My methodology addresses the Mind, Body, Emotional, Energetic and Spiritual levels of being and systematically moves through 5 major Archetypes to guide you into deeper integration and a natural unfurling of your Abundant Fertility. I work with you on the following areas:


  1. The Queen & King- Journey into the Mind (Week 1 may be broken into 2 weeks)

    1. Understanding the reproductive systems, cycles of the Womb and the connection between mind, body, emotions, sexuality, spirituality, conception, generational connection and how all this affects your fertility

    2. Basic Communication for you and your partner to use throughout this program and everyday in your relationship. Learn to place your attention on your partner as they share their feelings while staying embodied in your own self. Resist the urge to ‘fix’ your partners feelings and just fully show up to hear and reflect back to them in their experience. Learn a simple framework for talking about what you feel to create the most intimacy and remove resentment and clogged energy from the space between you

    3. Mindset work around Subconscious beliefs around parenthood (what you subconsciously believe happens to you after you become a parent if you have subconscious beliefs that say becoming a mom means I will be constantly exhausted and loose myself as i know her, something like that can directly sabotage your desire to become pregnant and even prompt your body to create an environment that would prevent that from happening) , relationship after baby, sexuality- becoming aware of the subconscious beliefs that may be hindering your body’s ability to create, and learn to reprogram these into an Abundant Fertility Mindset

    4. Re-Parenting yourself and Inner Child integration and Stepping into the Empowered Royal Identity- An inner child that is unintegrated and angry about the idea of another little taking attention away from them can sabotage your ability to conceive easily. Rather than banishing them, this work seeks to understand and care for your Inner Little One, allowing you to practice becoming the Caregiver you always needed, so that when your new little is conceived, you already know what your Inner L.O. needs and how to communicate with them

    5. Your Relationship with Emotions (repressed and leaking) that drain your energy and create a toxic atmosphere in your relationship and conception bed

  2. The Sage & Mystic- Journey into the Heart

    1. Heart meditation & Breathwork- opening to divine love and support from the Masculine and Feminine

    2. Radical Self-Love and Acceptance through Mother/Father/Caregiver integration- Address your relationship to your caregivers growing up because this greatly influences the way you feel about your own parenthood.

    3. Breast massage- The art of opening the heart through the connection to the breasts and nipples. This is a deeply connecting practice that opens the flow of love and nurturing towards self, partner and child. You’ll learn and understand how and why to bring this practice into a daily ritual that shifts your energy around giving and receiving love. Making this a regular ritual before conception shifts your relationship with them into a place that sets up greater success for breastfeeding relationship. Because you establish a loving and magical connection with them full of appreciation, and open yourself to receive that nourishment first. (this is a solo or partnered practice)

    4. Intimacy enhancement through Soul Gazing- this is leveled up eyegazing where you connect with your partner on every level through the eyes. See parts of them you never saw before and prepare to be awed by their vast mystery!

    5. Tantric Heart Connection- bringing sexual energy up from the sexual center and back down, cycling with lover- this is the purification of the Sex force through the warmth of the loving heart chakra. This practice in itself can completely transform your relationship with your partner and heal you both on a deep level as you experience ecstasy, acceptance and Universal Love by opening yourself to the spiritual realms of sex.

  3. The Mother & Father- Journey into the Sacral

    1. In this you’re really beginning to own your identity as a Mother/Father/Caregiver on your terms and creating your own family bubble. What do you want to invite in and let go of to create the parenthood you desire? How do YOU want to show up as parent?

    2. Learn the Tantric technique of harnessing the sexual charge of energy in the womb and prostate to cycle through the creative center in your 3rd eye as you envision yourself as the Mother and Father embodied.

    3. Learn to channel forces of nature through your sexual connection that help you embody a characteristic you believe will help you on your parenthood journey i.e. the emotionally intune Lunar energy or the bright and powerful Solar Energy.

  4. The Lovers- Journey to the Root

    1. The De-armoring process- Explore your own pleasure and Purge and release pain, tension, expectations, shame you may carry in your genitals. Learn to create a loving relationship with this part of you and to hear the wisdom that resides there. Heal your relationship with your partner’s genitals and see how worshiping them creates deep vulnerability, intimacy and healing. Bring the play back to your bedroom and learn to touch each other in new ways, and follow the trail of pleasure your partner’s energy is calling you towards.

  5. The Priestess & The Wise Man- Journey into the Soul

    1. Journey to meet your higher self and open to the vision of yourself as a family. Sharing your visions and learn the art of Sex Magic and how to apply this method to conceiving your baby in your Date Night for the week

  6. Integrating the Mother/Father, Lover, Queen/King

    1. The importance of rest, death and rebirth- Letting go of control, Surrender to Nature in you and around you

      1. Mindset around letting go and surrender

      2. Nurture self and each other with pleasure and orgasm

      3. Integrating pleasure with mother and fatherhood

      4. Sex posititve pregnancy, birth and parenting

    2. What ends are left untied/Questions unanswered?



This program is a culmination of all the mindset, tantra, emotional mastery and ancestral healing work I did for a year before I conceived my baby. This is what cleaned out decades of sexual shame and trauma, gave me a sense of sovereignty and power as a woman, deep love for my body and it’s functions and a knowing that I was born to create and birth life. It was one intense year of healing full of tears, laughter and pleasure. I’ve distilled down and handpicked the most effective tools and exercises that I believe have the greatest capacity to move the needle forward on clearing sexual and mental blocks that lead to infertility. And I can teach you these in 6 weeks.



In the program you get 1-on-1 calls, guided audio meditations and tantric exercises, journal prompts


This program gets best results for couples who:

  • have pretty good communication and positive rapport together (not struggling with greater issues in the relationship and are focusing mostly on improving their natural fertility and creating intentionality around their sex life),

  • are both relatively open or willing to try to be about what may be going on for you in the sexual realm of your relationship, and coaching around trying new approaches.

  • willing and able to show up to every session fully present (no devices or distractions) and have extra time after the session to integrate alone.

  • both committed to showing up for your ‘homework’ daily and date nights once per week together in between your sessions with me.

  • If you have an infertility diagnosis, this work does not address your body medically. I believe wholeheartedly in the body’s ability to recover it’s full functions once blockages and traumas are cleared and safety and self-trust is re-established in the nervous system. I work best with clients who also hold this belief and are willing to give the body, mind, and soul the time it needs to integrate the work. (in other words, there is no guarantee you conceive within the program, but if you follow the protocol as presented, your natural fertility will be enhanced through the shifting of your relationship with it) This is not for you if you are looking for a magic pill and/or if you or your partner need a lot of convincing. This work is sometimes mentally and emotionally challenging and may bring up painful points for you to apply healing to. I believe this is a beautiful thing, if you’re not into that, this probably isn’t for you.


That being said, if you are into it, but your partner is not ready, this work can still be deeply nourishing and have a profound impact on your fertility journey and I offer an option to work with individuals as well.


The program price is $2222 for the full 6 weeks which includes (6) 1 hour Zoom sessions, email support, and guided audio meditations and date nights for your homework.


If you’re interested, Please Book a Clarity Call, and we will chat to see if you're a good candidate to get results. If you are, we can begin our work together at our earliest shared convenience.


In your initial message, please include the following:


-How long you’ve been TTC?

-What you’ve tried to increase your fertility naturally or medically?

-Whether you’ve presented this idea to your partner yet and, if so, are they on board?

 
 
 

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© 2026 by Melinda Love, Coach

Melinda Raines is a Certified Consulting Hypnotist and Life Coach based in Asheville, NC

 Parts-informed Hypnosis, Whole Family Hypnosis, Menstrual Health Advocate & Educator,

Sexual Empowerment and Tantric Sex Coach for Women and Married Couples

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